You see, when you're in a relationship you can never imagine what will happen in the future. Of course, we pray for the best. But some people are just not meant to be together. People say, things happen for a reason. There's always a hikmah behind that. Sometimes when you truly, deeply, madly in love with someone you just can't accept the fact that you can't be together anymore. It is hard to loose someone that you really care and love.
I have seen couple of my friends going through depression after a breakup. They look miserable, suffer from mental illness. To be honest, you never want to see your friends loosing their appetite, loosing weight drastically, feeling down and not motivated.
I started to notice that it gets worse after throwing their feelings out in social media. They got bashed. Instead of feeling sorry to them, they laughed and made a stupid joke about it saying that they were seeking for attention and being ridiculously emotional. Guess what? They are seeking attention. They are being too emotional. Can't you see? THEY NEED HELP.
Instead of bashing around, why not giving them the bestest advice you can give. Support them, tell them not to feel sad. Encourage them to keep up with healthy lifestyle so that they can throw away all the negative vibes. People who doesn't give a shit and continue laughing, they all don't really understand the situation because never been in their shoes. I mean, try to put yourself in their situation. They are hurting. I just can't accept the fact that people being so harsh to them, saying something that can hurt their feelings even more.
I'm not saying that it is 100% fine to express feelings in social media but at least, say something nice. If it's bother you, try to talk to them that it is better not to share everything in social media. I'm really upset to see this one friend of mine (which I'm not even close to) got bashed with her own friends. I mean, she doesn't deserve these kind of friends, really. I'm hoping and praying that whoever caught under the same situation, will get through this. There's no rainbow without rain.
Sorry for the random ramblings but I just had to let it out.
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