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One of my targets for this blog is to finish writing about my travel experiences. Well, I don't travel that much but I have been to some places outside this country and I would love to share it here.

Hong Kong is fun. Travel there with my family and cousins including tok. Busy and bustle are the perfect words to describe the place. We can see high rise buildings everywhere because there are very limited in space. Talking about food, it is not hard to find halal restaurants since Hong Kong is one of the famous place for tourist to visit. Kowloon is a great place to shop and also the home to the well known shopping district called Mong Kok. 



It's like fulfilling childhood dream when we toured to Hong Kong Disneyland, which is the first Disney world we entered. And it is definitely the main reason why we visited Hong Kong. They have seven theme attractions which are Fantasyland, Adventureland, Tomorrowland, ToyStoryland, Mystic point, Mainstreet and Grizzly Gulch.









Another place that I find really exciting and literally my favourite part of this trip is the Ocean Park. It is a combination of a theme park, aquarium and zoo all in one place! The place is huge I think it is bigger than Disneyland. There is so much fun activities there including having lunch with penguins, watch the Dolphin show, see the shark, panda,  and more. But the highlight of this place is of course the rides! They have a lot of crazy rides and are definitely more challenging than in Disneyland. We also experienced a spectacular view from the cable car ride which is the best cable car I have ridden so far.










Hong Kong



You see, when you're in a relationship you can never imagine what will happen in the future. Of course, we pray for the best. But some people are just not meant to be together. People say, things happen for a reason. There's always a hikmah behind that. Sometimes when you truly, deeply, madly in love with someone you just can't accept the fact that you can't be together anymore. It is hard to loose someone that you really care and love.

I have seen couple of my friends going through depression after a breakup. They look miserable, suffer from mental illness. To be honest, you never want to see your friends loosing their appetite, loosing weight drastically, feeling down and not motivated.

I started to notice that it gets worse after throwing their feelings out in social media. They got bashed. Instead of feeling sorry to them, they laughed and made a stupid joke about it saying that they were seeking for attention and being ridiculously emotional. Guess what? They are seeking attention. They are being too emotional. Can't you see? THEY NEED HELP.

Instead of bashing around, why not giving them the bestest advice you can give. Support them, tell them not to feel sad. Encourage them to keep up with healthy lifestyle so that they can throw away all the negative vibes. People who doesn't give a shit and continue laughing, they all don't really understand the situation because never been in their shoes. I mean, try to put yourself in their situation. They are hurting. I just can't accept the fact that people being so harsh to them, saying something that can hurt their feelings even more.

I'm not saying that it is 100% fine to express feelings in social media but at least, say something nice. If it's bother you, try to talk to them that it is better not to share everything in social media. I'm really upset to see this one friend of mine (which I'm not even close to) got bashed with her own friends. I mean, she doesn't deserve these kind of friends, really. I'm hoping and praying that whoever caught under the same situation, will get through this. There's no rainbow without rain.

Sorry for the random ramblings but I just had to let it out.

They need help



I find something about myself which I'm not sure whether it is good or bad, about how I feel towards people around me. Especially the close ones. If it's good, I can finally see everything clearly and if it's not, it can ruin my relationship with them. I feel that most of the people around me is pretending. I was just wanted to say faking but sounds too harsh, no?

I believed that not everything in social media is true where people can put a smile on their faces or post interesting stories about how they really enjoyed their lives. I'm actually getting sick of social medias but where else I would go if I'm bored.

It happens around me. I can see so many different faces who is pretending about their lives - and even worse, pretending behind my back. It's like, I've known the person for this and that, but that person is actually completely different from what I see. I mean, it doesn't bother me that much but still I'll get upset about how life can be such in an opposite way. People can be a different version of themselves in social media. They don't show their true colours.

I remembered once, in high school I had this one friend from social media (yes, we were in the same school but never really hung out). We talked like best friend in Facebook (used to be a famous platform for interacting with schoolmates back then) but when we met and talked in front of each other it felt kinda awkward. I thought it was a horrible way to make friends. What kind of relationship is that?

Real life can't be the same as in the virtual world. It's like you are living in the 3D world where you can create your own different version of life.

You see, not everything is pure. Well at least in my point of view. Nowadays it's really hard to find something that really genuine. Sometimes I feel like I want to throw myself back in the old era where people did not yet discovered the word 'social media'. Everything was authentic. They don't seek for attention or try to viral something stupid. They don't create drama that later become a huge social media fight.


So my question is: how do you really define the meaning of pure?

Is this called pure?



Wow. Just wow. Hard to believe that I'm back on blogging. I've been missing for about a year. Every time I think about getting back at it  I'm like, nah its not going to happen anytime soon. But here I am, writing again. Just because I have nothing to do at home and trying to be productive again. 3 months of break, not planning to get a part time job cuz yo home girl right here is effin lazy.

There's so many things that I'm planning to do with this blog honestly. This blog needs to revamp. Mainly part of the reason I'm lacking of motivation to write is because I'm so DONE with this template. I'm still trying to figure out what is the most suitable template for this blog that suits my kind of style.

Anyway, I think of channelling my blog to become more personal. I want my blog to be remembered. I want in 10 years, I would read back and reminiscing all the memories for the past years. I want my kids to read their mommy's stories, I want my husband to read what I wrote. So, be prepare because I'm going to tell more stories about my life afterwards hahaha.


Back at it

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